Serving Others Helps to Serve You As Well

The purpose of Life is to Know, Love, and Serve the Creator.

But how do you Serve an All-Giving Entity?

I believe that to serve the Creator, is to serve Humanity.

Humbly, honestly, and as joyfully as your heart will allow you to offer help to another.

You can serve another human being or even an animal or some other Creature here on Earth. You’ll know when you become a true servant. You will serve more out of love than out of duty, habit or money. You will expect little or nothing in return, but reap joy, inspiration, and serenity when you least expect it from those served.

I daily serve a white rabbit, two chickens, and a rooster, as well as dozens of birds and sometimes some pesky squirrels. That’s not to mention two house cats whose litter box gets changed every morning whether it needs it or not.

I have never, however, seen a litter box early in the day that did not need clump removals. I feel so humbled when I kneel on the floor of our small bathroom and reach for the box bringing it closer to me as I dig in with a sifter removing the overnight deposits, often needing to scrape the sides that accumulated from the droppings of our older cat that constantly drinks water and subsequently expels the waste in a haphazard fashion. Humbled? You bet.  Serving honestly? I actually perform a thorough job despite having just awoken at 6 to 6:30 a.m. If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing right, somebody’s mama once said to me, and I apply it to this clean-up.


Joyfully? That’s a tough one. I do  feel a sense of Pride, in that I accomplished the first major chore of my day and I helped give our feline friends a more hygienic place to “do their business.”

Deep within, I take comfort in doing the chore because it is one I took over from my wife and is one less act she must face each day. It is a dirty job. (Wait, have you ever cleaned a chicken coop?) It is one of the least desirable indoor chores to do and usually only gets noticed when a not-too-pleasant aroma seeps out because the chore was left undone for too long of a time.

Yes, I feel that I am serving my family with this routine. I do it gladly without seeking a pat on the back. I do the same when feeding the rabbit and releasing him from his cage to scurry through our expansive, hilly backyard. Next, I serve the birds who swoop down to the low hanging tree branches near the three-foot statue of St. Francis of Assisi and the feeders. I nicknamed two morning doves, ” Thelma and Louise.” and simply call our more colorful bird friend, the “Cardinal.” 

I place six peanut shells (peanuts included, thank you ) on a small stool and cover the stool with black sunflower seeds, in hopes of diverting squirrels away from the bird seed. It worked fine, until my son hatched three chicks in his bedroom using an everyday lamp, cardboard box and tender love and care to raise the chicks into larger fowl. (All three chicks grew and matured into . . . three of the loudest roosters my suburban neighbors ever heard at the crack of dawn.) We moved the fowl outdoors and they soon ate all the sunflowers seeds and pushed the peanuts off the stool and onto the concrete pavement of the yard.

I performed these chores out of a love for animals. I do it in the rain as well as in the snow, (This will be the chickens first winter. We exchanged two of the roosters for two barnyard hens and I have eaten egg salad several times over several weeks now.)

Today, I sat at the top of our backyard hill, near a shed we’re building to house the fowl and store garden equipment. “Hilary” the smartest of the hens, squawked as if in pain and I called her toward me. The critter bounded over and stood to my left, where I could physically separate her from the copulating-minded rooster. Hilary has sat on a nest of eggs (one egg) for four days, 24-hours a stretch through the cool and windy nights. This was only her second time out from that nest. She wanted space to stretch her wings and her legs and not remain stationary for the rooster, I thought.

“Get away,” I shout at the rooster I call “His Whiteness” because of his white, hawk-inviting feathers. I felt the hen next to me becoming still. I closed my eyes. Seconds passed and I noticed minor movement to my other side and toward my front.

When I opened my eyes, I was in awe.

The hen was still at my left, pecking dirt for possible worms. But at my right side, snuggling up to my right thigh, was “Cwazy Wabbit,” the white bunny. The rooster stood in front, staying several feet away from the rabbit, and strutting beside the other chicken, “Michelle.”

But, next, I saw a squirrel perched on a rock less than 8 feet away, munching peanut shells to get to the nuggets inside. The animal traveled more than 75 feet from the bottom of our patio to the top of our hilly backyard and then onto the rock. We made eye contact and I have never felt so much in tune with nature and the physical world around me as I did then, surrounded by God’s creatures of whom I have decided to serve wholeheartedly. 


If what I present here is true, that is, we serve God by serving others in the universe, then the USA has the potential to be, or has in fact already become,  the most Spiritual nation on earth. We have more people in the Service Industry than anyone else. If only 1 percent of us serve humbly, honestly and joyfully, than we commune with God on a daily basis more than one could ever imagine.

Waitresses, bartenders, car salespeople, not to mention salespersons, health providers, cosmetologists, teachers and even news reporters (don’t hiss . . . one can offer the service in the Name of God and/or Goodness. I tried to when I worked as a newspaper reporter).

How many of us go above and beyond the call of the job, the service, particularly when dealing with an elderly person or a child? How many of us genuinely smile when in the service? Madison Avenue has also gotten into the spirit, providing us with so many jingles about “doing” for others. “Service with a Smile,” “All the Better to Serve You,” “Service is Our Middle Name.”

You can probably think of half a dozen more.

The Creator is not confined to a building or a Greek icon or a book. God is not out there in some never-never land. God is inside each of us. We can do God’s work without ever using His (Her) name or praying exactly the way a Sunday School teacher or some nun instructed us to pray. Unlike the Pharisees of old who sought attention for their contributions at the Temple, we don’t need to take any credit for serving the Higher Good.You know when you are doing a good thing . . . over . . .and . . . over . . . and . . . over . . .  again . . .

You are serving another.

You are serving God.

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12 comments on “Serving Others Helps to Serve You As Well

  1. *gentle smile*

    I live in what you might call a ‘rural suburb’…

    My neighbors move here because they think it’s safe – or cheap – or more spacious than what they could secure in the city proper. (or because they think it sets them ‘apart’ from the city folks they look down on – I have some words about that for another day, just that I grew up in the city and love the people I met ‘downtown’…)

    My very modest yard is – uh – ‘unkempt’.

    I have places for all the things/creatures/life I respect the most.

    I have bunnies, birds, chipmunks, squirrels,racoons, stray cats, mice – a micro shelter for all.

    I have vine crops that seem to reach to heaven when the season is right – berry bushes, fruit trees and crops that make me happy (tiny peppers, squash that look like alien creatures and odd colored veggies like purple beans and green creepy cauliflower)

    I get offers from the local realestate folks to sell my house for me all the time – *smirk* – I no longer fit ‘in’ with the changing theme of the neighborhood.

    I wonder what hey will say when I start keeping chickens?

    Will they believe that I do it all for love?




    • I would love to see your “unkempt” yard. I’d feel right at home.

      Never was too crazy about people who spruced up their yards all the time. That would leave me too little time to do and see more important things in life. Like reflect and contemplate and enjoy the mice and, yeah, now that you mention it, I have seen one or two chipmonks in my “unkempt” yard. Neighbors on both sides of me put up with my easy-going nature. They also know I got PTSD and lack control when criticized about my “jungle” training in the back yard.

      Chickens are easy to deal with. It’s the Sombitch Rooster that you gotta look out for. Without a rooster, you’d never have to worry about population control with your eggs.

      Go for it.

      Go for the Love.



  2. […] My first encounter with the Sufi, however, was with a post I wrote stating that “to serve God, is to Serve Humanity.” I got one of those “See related stories” at the bottom of my article. Can’t Hurry God (Part III) […]


  3. saradode says:

    I meant “my only experience of that war,” obviously…bizarre typo…sorry.



    • contoveros says:


      long time no see.

      Just thought I would say “Hi.”

      In the neighborhood. Have a cup of tea together!

      michael j


      • saradode says:

        Hey, Michael,

        I’ve been “around”, reading and enjoying your posts…just haven’t had anything wise or entertaining to say in response to them! You’re “knocking on so many doors”–it’s really wonderful to read about what you find behind each one!

        Tea sounds good. (But a large eggnog latte, now that it’s almost the season for such things, sounds even better…can you get one through your screen for me? 🙂 )



        • contoveros says:

          You struck a chord with me just now. Bob Dylan. “Knock, knock, knocking on Heaven’s door.” With a large eggnog latte for you an a spot of tea for me.

          Nice to see you again, my dear. Now I can feel warm and “comfy” {is that how you spell it?) on my ride for Sunday breakfast.


          • saradode says:

            There ya go! You can never go TOO wrong with Dylan (well, with his music, anyway…)

            It’s my fasting-day, so I probably shouldn’t drink the latte, but what the hell…

            I just hope you’re not driving and writing at the same time!



            • contoveros says:

              No drink and drive while writing here. (Well, maybe “drink.”)

              Are you saying above that I actually got a Dylan connection right?


              So are your insights.


  4. saradode says:

    There goes Mary again, creating all kinds of distractions! Well, I do wish she hadn’t this time; I would have loved to read your comment.

    The love of my life (“Sam”, about whom I write a lot at the beginning of my blog) was a Vietnam vet (he passed as a result of AIDS in 1990). I used to sit and listen to him and his buddies telling the stories, and I remember how uncomfortable it all made me (I guess that SOME of it was just plain ole BS, too, but no doubt not nearly as much as I naively assumed back then–maybe I just couldn’t believe that people had actually lived through those things). Other than that, the only only “experience” of that war was listening to Walter Cronkite reciting the casualties at night when I was 7 or 8. So I can’t say that I “understand” your feelings, and your venom. I can only imagine. But your posts are so beautiful and wise in so many ways (I love the one about the bird you feed)…if there’s any way for you to find peace, I think you’re on the right path.

    My “real” name is Nancy, btw. I used to worry about repercussions because of some of the things I write about might be considered “blasphemous” or some such thing in some corners, and people with such hard convictions can be kind of tricky, if you know what I mean. But I’m getting over it!

    Anyway, I think you’re right about the “beautiful relationship”. Here’s looking at you, kid :)…



  5. contoveros says:

    So your name is Sara.
    i should have read it in you “saradode” title.
    I got corple tunnel syndrome. Hurst from editing too much yesterday. Three posts on one day. My body could not keep up with my mind, heart and soul. Had to force out the venom from my past after writing about Joe, my good friend who shared his PTSD report with me, and opened himself through his story about a young soldier who died while Joe led him as a sergeant. I had to spit out all the vile, and thank God, God was available for me to rant at. He (All right, maybe it is a She. Ever read the “Shack?” God the Father is portrayed a helluva lot differently there, a persona that I like better then the old “white guy” you mentioned in your last coment.
    Hey, I can still type, I just can’t edit to change my grammar or to correct my spelling mistakes.
    Well, let me leave you with what Claude Raines said to Humphrey Bogart in the movie, “Cassablanca,” [paraphrasing] . . . “Louie, this could be the start of a wonderful relationship.”
    See you on the ‘Net
    Michael J
    Note, I wrote a novel-length response to your earlier comment, saw a post on Mary Magdaline out of the corner of my eye, and surfed over to it, thereby wiping out everything I said to you . . . It was the best thing I have ever written but now will never be seen. I guess it may have really meant not to have been read!


  6. saradode says:

    I’m seriously loving your blog as I read more and more :). I’m going to add it to my Blogroll, if I can figure out how to do it now that those convenient little buttons seem to be gone…



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